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Tuesday, October 22, 2013
Monday, August 24, 2009
Long time no POST!
Well I am officially divorced, as of July 10th. Annabelle came for the weekend to help me through. It was tougher than I thought it would be. I dont even know what to blog...there is so much.
My kids: They are struggling still. Their dad has a girlfriend and has had since we moved out. So I am trying to keep things on my end as stable as possible for them.
My Place: Still a work in progress. But livable finally.
My love life: Well thats a blog and a half all on its own. Short version is that I am a girl and I suck at the dating thing. Have one boy I really like and its just....its complicated.
Blog again soon I promise.
-Abi
My kids: They are struggling still. Their dad has a girlfriend and has had since we moved out. So I am trying to keep things on my end as stable as possible for them.
My Place: Still a work in progress. But livable finally.
My love life: Well thats a blog and a half all on its own. Short version is that I am a girl and I suck at the dating thing. Have one boy I really like and its just....its complicated.
Blog again soon I promise.
-Abi
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Hmmmmmmm......
Haven't posted in a while and there is so much going on I don't even know where to start!
I filed my divorce papers last Thursday. What an emotional day that was. After almost 12 years, it took me 5 minutes and $250 to get a case number stamped on the papers and in 90 days I will be divorced! I left the courthouse sobbing. I know it's the right thing to do, but the finality of it....was just crushing!
I am now, for the time being, staying at my parents. Thank god they are out of town this month. My townhouse should close March 5th and I can't wait to get settled. My asshole soon to be ex threw myself and the kids out ON VALENTINES DAY! He is such a stellar person...DUH GUY, IT'S NO WONDER I AM DIVORCING YOUR ASS! But he cashed me out of the house so now 'it is his house'. As for us doing what's best for the kids, well he now says he could care less what is best for them as long as I am miserable. In fact, he looked my son dead in the face and said 'do you see what a bitch your mother is?' I am telling you, it took all I had not to come across the island in our kitchen and choke him. But my boy, god I love him, he looked at his dad and said 'no she isn't and don't talk to my mom that way!' I was so proud of him!!! I mean, he is now scarred for life, but both him and his sister will grow to resent their dad and none of it will be my doing. I never say anything bad about him. I actually told my son later that day when he asked why papa was being so mean that 'papa was just having a bad day'.
Let's see, what else? I mentioned above closing on my very own FIRST place. That's exciting and scary all at the same time. But can't wait to get in there and make it my own.
Loving my job. Just found out the girl I share my office with has a smokin' hot brother. I could have killed her for not telling me sooner. LOL But he is only 26, and we all know my cut off is now 28! LMAO
I have met (well sort of) a few different guys over the past few months. Most of them in the same situation as I am. Going through a divorce with kids. Schedules are a BITCH to coordinate when you both have kids. LOL But it has been nice to have someone to talk to who knows exactly what I am going through.
Met up with a friend that I haven't seen since possibly grade school a few weeks ago for some karaoke and blue drinks. NOTE TO ANYONE OUT THERE READING....DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT DRINK ANYTHING BLUE! That was the worst 3 day to 1 week hang over I have ever had. And I am totally not joking!
I get to see Annabelle in 4 WEEKS and COUNTING! I cannot wait. We both have had so much going on lately I feel like we barely talk. ANNABELLE, I MISS YOU! (say it in a singing voice)
What else? I am sure there is a ton. But for now I will just say this, as sad as I am to be going through this divorce, I know it is what is best for me and my kids. And even being sad, I can see the light at the end of all this. I actually sleep better at night knowing I don't have to endure my ex's b/s the next day. I ACTUALLY SLEEP! It is the weirdest thing. And not that he still doesn't dish out plenty of b/s, it's just now, I don't have to care! It's an amazing feeling.
So on that note....
-Abi
I filed my divorce papers last Thursday. What an emotional day that was. After almost 12 years, it took me 5 minutes and $250 to get a case number stamped on the papers and in 90 days I will be divorced! I left the courthouse sobbing. I know it's the right thing to do, but the finality of it....was just crushing!
I am now, for the time being, staying at my parents. Thank god they are out of town this month. My townhouse should close March 5th and I can't wait to get settled. My asshole soon to be ex threw myself and the kids out ON VALENTINES DAY! He is such a stellar person...DUH GUY, IT'S NO WONDER I AM DIVORCING YOUR ASS! But he cashed me out of the house so now 'it is his house'. As for us doing what's best for the kids, well he now says he could care less what is best for them as long as I am miserable. In fact, he looked my son dead in the face and said 'do you see what a bitch your mother is?' I am telling you, it took all I had not to come across the island in our kitchen and choke him. But my boy, god I love him, he looked at his dad and said 'no she isn't and don't talk to my mom that way!' I was so proud of him!!! I mean, he is now scarred for life, but both him and his sister will grow to resent their dad and none of it will be my doing. I never say anything bad about him. I actually told my son later that day when he asked why papa was being so mean that 'papa was just having a bad day'.
Let's see, what else? I mentioned above closing on my very own FIRST place. That's exciting and scary all at the same time. But can't wait to get in there and make it my own.
Loving my job. Just found out the girl I share my office with has a smokin' hot brother. I could have killed her for not telling me sooner. LOL But he is only 26, and we all know my cut off is now 28! LMAO
I have met (well sort of) a few different guys over the past few months. Most of them in the same situation as I am. Going through a divorce with kids. Schedules are a BITCH to coordinate when you both have kids. LOL But it has been nice to have someone to talk to who knows exactly what I am going through.
Met up with a friend that I haven't seen since possibly grade school a few weeks ago for some karaoke and blue drinks. NOTE TO ANYONE OUT THERE READING....DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT DRINK ANYTHING BLUE! That was the worst 3 day to 1 week hang over I have ever had. And I am totally not joking!
I get to see Annabelle in 4 WEEKS and COUNTING! I cannot wait. We both have had so much going on lately I feel like we barely talk. ANNABELLE, I MISS YOU! (say it in a singing voice)
What else? I am sure there is a ton. But for now I will just say this, as sad as I am to be going through this divorce, I know it is what is best for me and my kids. And even being sad, I can see the light at the end of all this. I actually sleep better at night knowing I don't have to endure my ex's b/s the next day. I ACTUALLY SLEEP! It is the weirdest thing. And not that he still doesn't dish out plenty of b/s, it's just now, I don't have to care! It's an amazing feeling.
So on that note....
-Abi
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